One final note now, before I bring this guide to a close. This may seem like a counterintuitive thing to say, but my last and most important piece of advice is simply go your own way. You don’t have to do kink in a way that some guide or guru or mentor tells you to do it. You don’t have to live by your rules. The kink world is a huge and expansive one, and there are many different ways to live it. Find your own. This is a journey, and you have taken the first step. The destination remains up to you.
This guide should help you stay safe as you start to explore, and should certainly have given you some ideas and tips about how to do that. Perhaps it’s started you on a completely new road, or piqued your interest in a kink that you’d never heard of before. Perhaps it’s even changed your mind about the whole thing. Whatever the end result, you’re better off than you would be if you’d only ever read Fifty Shades and the assorted other trash you find in mainstream bookshops.
Now it’s time to go forth and play. Find a partner. Join the scene. Even treat yourself. It’s up to you. Do it safely. Do it kinky. And most of all, do it your way.