CH 19: The BDSM and Kink Terms

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Abrasion – Sensation play with abrasive materials.
Age Regression Play – Pretending to be younger than you are.
Anal Sex – Receiving anal sex.
Aphrodisiacs – Taking legal herbal / diet aphrodisiacs.
Asphyxiation – Breath play. Having air supply controlled or cut off.
Bastinado – Whipping or beating the soles of the feet.
Bath / Shower – Sharing / having sex in the bath or shower.
Bathroom Use Control – Having to get permission before using the bathroom.
Begging – Begging to avoid punishment or for sex.
Behaviour Modification – Erotic punishment as a way of modifying behaviour.
Belt/Strap – Belts, straps or tawses as impact play tools.
Biting – Being bitten.
Blindfolds – Wearing a blindfold.
Body Bags – Being contained within a body bag or sack.
Boxing / Closeting – Being contained within a box or cupboard.
Branding – Being branded / burned on soft tissue areas.
Breast Bondage – Bondage involving compression or binding of the breasts.
Breast Impact Play – Impact play on the breasts.
Breast Torture – Pain inflicted on the breasts and nipples.
Burned With Cigarettes – Being burned with a cigarette or threatened with same.
Butt Plugs – Insertion and wearing of butt plugs
Butt Plugs (Public) – Wearing a butt plug while out in public.
Caging – Being put in a cage.
Caning – Wooden canes as impact play tools.
Captures – Aggressive bondage used to initiate a scene.
Cattle Prod – Having a cattle prod or similar electric shock device used on you.
Chains (Bondage) – Bondage using chains.
Chains (Wearing) – Wearing chains for aesthetic / ornamental reasons.
Chastity Belts – Wearing a chastity belt or device.
Choking – Pressure on the neck from a hand, belt or similar.
Clingfilm – Being wrapped in clingfilm as a method of bondage.
Clothespins – Clothespins used for sensation play. Linked clothespins.
Clothes – Being restrained using clothes. Scarves, ties, etc.
Clothing choice – Being told what to wear.
Cock Rings – Having sex whilst using a cock ring.
Collar – Wearing a collar to denote position.
Competition – Competing with another woman for attention.
Corsets – Wearing a corset.
Cowgirl Position – Having sex in cowgirl position.
Crawling – Crawling on request.
Crucifixion – Being suspended by rope as in a crucifixion.
Cuffs (Bondage) – Using wrist or hand cuffs for bondage.
Cuffs (Wearing) – Wearing handcuffs or wrist cuffs for aesthetic appeal.
Cunnilingus (Giving) – Giving oral sex to another woman.
Cunnilingus (Receiving) – Receiving oral sex.
Cyber Domination – Being given orders by email or text.
Deep Throating – Oral in which the penis is taken into the throat.
Deep Throating Toys – Performing oral sex on toys in which they are taken into the throat.
Doggy Position – Having sex in doggy position.
Double Penetration (With Multiple Partners) – Being penetrated in two orifices at once, by multiple partners.
Double Penetration (With Toy) – Being penetrated in two orifices at once, by a partner and a toy.
Drinking – Drinking urine.
Drugs – Taking illegal drugs to enhance the experience of sex.
Duct Tape – Bondage or gagging using duct tape.
Enemas (Cleansing) – Using an enema prior to anal sex.
Enemas (Punishment) – Being given an enema as for erotic pleasure.
Exhibitionism – Showing off your body or sexual abilities.
Eye Contact Restriction – Being ordered to avoid eye contact or lower your gaze.
Face Riding (Giving) – Giving oral to another woman while she kneels over your face.
Face Riding (Receiving) – Receiving oral while kneeling over a partner’s face.
Face Slapping – Being slapped in the face.
Fear – Being frightened.
Feathers – Feathers as an object / sensation.
Fellatio – Giving oral.
Fingering – Stimulation from fingers inserted into the vagina.
Fingering (Giving To Female) – Stimulating another woman’s vagina and clitoris with your fingers.
Finger Sucking – Sucking a partner’s fingers.
Fire Cups – Glass cups that create suction. Used for sensation play.
Fireplay – Play involving fire.
Fisting (Vaginal) – Insertion of most of the hand into the vagina.
Flogging – A flogger (soft or hard) used an impact play tool.
Fluid Bonded Sex – Sex without a condom, including internal ejaculation.
Following Orders – Being given orders.
Food (Eaten During Sex) – Eating food during sex.
Food (Sploshing) – Using food as part of play.
Food Choice – Having a partner decide what food you will eat.
Forced Exercise – Being ordered to exercise.
Forced Masturbation – Being ordered to masturbate, in person or remotely.
Forced Nudity (Private) – Being ordered to remove clothes while in a private setting.
Forced Nudity (Public) – Being ordered to remove clothes in public / semi-public surroundings.
Forced To Watch – Watching a partner have sex with another woman, without being permitted to join in.
Full Head Hoods – Wearing a hood over your head.
Gags – Ball gags, bit gags, cloth gags.
Gang Bang (Assisting) – Assisting a number of men to use another woman for sex.
Gang Bang (Main Recipient) – Being used by a number of men for sex.
Gas Masks – Wearing a gas mask as a method of bondage.
Genital Bondage – Bondage that incorporates the genitals.
Genital Impact Play – Impact play on the genitals.
Genital Torture – Pain inflicted on the genitals.
Given Away (Friend) – Being given away temporarily for sexual purposes to someone you know.
Given Away (Stranger) – Being given away temporarily for sexual purposes to someone you don’t know.
Glory Hole (Being Used As) – Giving oral while restrained or blindfolded to men of a partner’s choosing.
Gloves – Gloves as an object. Rubber gloves. Leather gloves. Silk gloves.
Golden Showers – Being peed on.
Grooming Choices – Following directions about how to groom yourself, and what you may do with your body.
Group Sex – Having sex as part of a larger group.
Gun Play – Play involving a gun.
Hair pulling – Having your hair pulled.
Hairbrushes – A hairbrush used as an impact play tool.
Hand Job (Giving) – Giving a handjob.
Hard Sex – Having hard / rough sex.
Harem – Being part of a harem of women in a community or household.
Harnesses – Wearing a harness of rope or leather.
Headphone/Earplugs – Having your sense of hearing restricted.
Horse – Straddling a bar as a form of crotch torture.
Hot Oils – Hot oil being dripped or brushed onto your skin.
Hot Wax – Having hot wax dripped onto your body.
Housework – Doing housework on request.
Humiliation (Private) – Being humiliated or degraded in a private setting.
Humiliation (Public) – Being humiliated or degraded in a public setting.
Ice (Exterior) – Being stimulated on the exterior of the body with an ice cube.
Ice (Inserted) – Having an ice cube inserted into your body.
Impact Play (Soft) – Softer impact play that tends more towards massage.
Impact Play (Hard) – Hard, painful impact play.
Incense / Aromatherapy – Burning incense or using aromatherapy oils during sex.
Injections – Being injected with saline or pierced with needles.
Interrogation – Interrogation role play scenarios.
Kicking – Being kicked in the genitals prior to sex.
Kitten Play – Pretending to be a kitten.
Kneeling – Kneeling on command.
Knife Play (Real) – Using the sharp part of a knife to cut your skin.
Knife Play (Simulated) – Using the sharp part of a knife to provide sensation play.
Labial Clip – Having clips applied to your labia.
Latex / Rubber / Leather – Wearing or feeling latex, leather or rubber.
Leashed – Wearing a leash or lead in private or in public.
Lecturing – Being told off.
Lead by Hair – Being lead around by your hair.
Legal Documents – Signing a contract to relinquish power or authority.
Lesbianism – Having sex with another woman of a partner’s choosing, for their entertainment.
Lingerie – Wearing lingerie.
Long Term Restraint – Being restrained in some way for hours, overnight or for several days.
Mammary Sex – Having non-penetrative sex by contact between breasts and cock
Manual stimulation – Stimulation of the clitoris with fingers.
Masks – Wearing masks while having sex.
Massage (Giving) – Giving a massage.
Masturbation – Touching yourself.
Medical Play – Play involving medical procedures and equipment.
Menstrual Sex – Having sex while you are menstruating.
Menstrual Sex (Giving) – Having sex with another woman while she is menstruating.
Mental / Honour Bondage – Holding a position as though bound on command.
Missionary Position – Having sex in the missionary position.
Mummification – Being wrapped up as a form of bondage.
Naked / Clothed – Being naked while your partner is clothed.
Name Calling – Being called names and verbally abused.
Name Change – Answering to a different name.
Nipple Clamps – Having clamps applied to your nipples and weighted.
Nipple Play – Having your nipples stimulated.
Orgasm Control – Being trained to orgasm on command.
Orgasm Denial – Having to gain permission before having an orgasm.
Other Outdoor Activities – Taking part in bondage or other activities outdoors.
Outdoor Sex – Having sex outdoors.
Paddle – A paddle as an impact play took.
Padlocks – Bondage controlled by a lock and key.
Performing (Private) – Dancing / singing privately for me.
Performing (Public) – Dancing / singing in public on request.
Physical Examinations – Medical play examination.
Pictures – Having pictures taken during sex or play. Exchanging pictures.
Pinching – Having skin pinched or twisted.
Pony Play – Pretending to be a pony or other pet animal.
Poppers – Taking poppers before and during sex.
Pornography – Watching pornography together.
Prison Scenes – Pretending to be a prisoner.
Prostitution – Pretending to be a prostitute. Being paid for sex on demand.
Protocols – Learning and obeying protocols regarding your behaviour.
Public (Discreet) – Having discreet sex in public.
Public (Overt) – Having sex in public with the objective of being seen. Includes dogging.
Public Bondage – Wearing bondage equipment under clothing in public.
Punching – Being punched in the torso or abdomen.
Punishment Scene – Role playing a punishment scene.
Rape Fantasy – Role playing a rape scenario.
Religious Scenes – Scenes involving a religious context.
Riding Crops – A riding crop as an impact play tool.
Ripping / Cutting Clothes – The ripping away or cutting away of clothes.
Rope – Bondage using rope.
Rope (Intricate) – Intricate bondage, mostly for ornamentation.
Rope (Wearing) – Wearing rope over clothes in front of others.
Scarification – Being permanently or semi-permanently scarred.
Scratching – Being scratched with nails or another sharp object.
Sensory Deprivation – Being deprived of several senses at once.
Serving as Furniture / Artwork – Serving as an item of furniture or decoration on request.
Serving Others – Serving and obeying orders of others (in a non-sexual context) on request.
Servitude – Following orders and serving by fetching drinks, cleaning, etc.
Sexual Denial – Being denied sex for a certain period of time.
Shaving – Being shaved, or ordered to shave yourself.
Silk Scarves – Silk scarves as a bondage tool.
Sixty-Nine – Giving and receiving oral in the sixty-nine position.
Sleep Deprivation – Being denied sleep.
Sleeve Bondage – Having arms or legs bound tightly together.
Smoking – Smoking during sex. Smoking while kissing.
Spanking On All Fours – Being spanked while on all fours.
Spanking OTK – Being held over the knee and spanked.
Speculum – Having a speculum used on you.
Speech Restrictions – Being forbidden to use certain words, or to speak at all.
Spitting – Being spat on during sex.
Spoons – Having sex in a spooning position.
Spreader Bars – Use of spreader bars in bondage for arms or legs.
Standing – Having sex while standing or bending over.
Standing in Corner – Being made to stand in the corner facing the wall.
Stocks – Being restrained in a set of stocks.
Strait Jacket – Wearing a strait jacket.
Strap-on/Dildos – Being penetrated by a strap on or dildo.
Strappado Bondage – Bondage involving the arms bound together behind the back and raised.
Stress Bondage – Being bound or restrained in positions that are painful to hold.
Struggling – Struggling against bondage.
Suspension – Being suspended by rope off the ground, partially or fully.
Swallowing Semen – Swallowing after giving oral.
Swings – Play involving a sling or swing.
Symbolic Jewellery – Wearing symbolic jewellery, such as a collar or other.
Talking Dirty (Giving) – Talking Dirty
Talking Dirty (Receiving) – Being talked to.
TENS Unit – Being electrocuted by a TENS unit.
Threesome – Taking part in a threesome with two partners. MFF? MMF?
Thumb Cuffs – Finger bondage or restraint.
Tickling – Being tickled.
Total Power Exchange – Shifting all power in the relationship to me.
Toys Used Anally – Having toys used on you anally.
Toys Used Orally – Having toys used on you orally.
Toys Used Vaginally – Having toys used on you vaginally.
Triple Penetration (Dildo) – Being penetrated in all orifices at once by a partner and various toys.
Triple Penetration (Multiple Partners) – Being penetrated in all orifices at once by several partners.
Uniforms – As an object / fetish.
Unusual Dildos – Having unusually shaped toys used on you.
Vibrators – Having a vibrator used on you.
Video (Public) – Being recorded to show to others.
Video (Private) – Being recorded for private viewing by a partner.
Violet Wand – Being electrocuted by a violet wand.
Voyeurism – Watching other people have sex.
Webcam (Private) – Performing in front of a webcam for a partner.
Webcam (Public) – Performing on request in front of a webcam for others.
Whipping – Being whipped with a singletail whip.
Whipping Post – Being tied loosely or securely to a post and whipped.
Wrestling / Fighting – Wrestling or fighting as foreplay.
Wrist To Ankle – Bondage that connects the wrists to the ankles, or ankles to neck.

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